are you tough enuf for marriage?
As a family lawyer, I can get you a divorce - thats easy for me at least. And you say its your only option? Can't get along with your wife or husband, so you want out. Again I can help you, no problem. And you say you'll be ok, and your kids will be as well. Maybe yes, maybe no. You, you'll probably marry the same person in a different body. Your kids might do ok if they get the right help. But the stats say no. Are you really just being selfish when you go for a divorce?
But what if your family lawyer could show you how to do a contract laying out how you're going to learn marriage and family skills that could save your marriage? What if there were a way to be selfish about your happiness and yet think about your kids, the ones who will really be hurt if you get a divorce?
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I agree. People need to think twice about the decision to divorce. It affects all of us- the kids, the extended family, the community in which we live and very often our employers and jobs. I think its funny that when people get married they want everyone to support them at the wedding but when they divorce it becomes a private matter that no one is allowed to say: " hold up here one minute, let's talk about this as a group and how can we avoid this?" That is what you seem to be proposing. Now tell us more about how we get the help we need. Where do couples who cannot see a future together go for help? What questions should they be asking? How many couples have you seen change their minds?
I'll be responding soon..sorry for the delay
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